UNWANTED STUDY – (Prerequisite to GOING DEEPER)

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Recommended Prerequisites:        Seven Pillars of Freedom, Dr. Ted Roberts and Pure Desire, Dr. Ted Roberts, Conquer Series from Soul Refiner, or Sexual Integrity 101 from Pure Desire Ministries

 

Contact for Study Questions:          Jeff Gallagher, jcgallag145@gmail.com (603) 770-0343

 

Text:                                                    Unwanted, Jay Stringer  https://a.co/d/dDrvdKB

 

Study Objectives:

 

At the conclusion of the Unwanted Study the participant will be better able to explain how their story of sexual brokenness can, with God’s direction, reveal a personal path to healing.

 

• Identify the relationship between lust and fantasies and unwanted sexual behavior(s).
• Explain how shame plays a role in keeping a person caught in a cycle of unwanted sexual behavior.
• Discuss various strategies and pathways that can help a person overcome unwanted sexual behavior(s).

 

The Unwanted study is in preparation for Going Deeper, E. Capparucci, Ph.D.

 

Week 1       

Introduction to Unwanted pp xv-xxv

 

Week 2         

Unwanted Part 1. How Did I Get Here?

• Chapter 1:  A Theology of Unwanted Sexual Behavior
• Chapter 2:  Setting the Course of Unwanted Sexual Behavior

 

Week 3       

• Chapter 3:  Dysfunctional Family Systems
• Chapter 4:  Abandonment: A Life in Exile

 

Week 4   

• Chapter 5:  Triangulation: When You’re Married to Your Parent
• Chapter 6:  Trauma as Soul Loss

Week 5

• Chapter 7:  Sexual Abuse: The Corruption of Desire
• Workbook: pp 37-39

 

Week 6

Unwanted Part 2. Why Do I Stay?

• Chapter 8:  The Six Core Experiences of Unwanted Sexual Behavior

Week 7

• Chapter 9:    Three Hijackers of Our Soul
• Chapter 10:  The Sex Industry: Pornography as Male Violence Against Women

Week 8

Unwanted Part 3. How Do I Get Out of Here?

• Chapter 11:  Transforming Self: Learning to Love and Care for Yourself
• Chapter 12:  A New Sexual Story: Sexual Healing

 

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Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction: Second Edition Paperback – June 15, 2021,  https://a.co/d/102kzx1

Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction: Workbook Paperback – December 10, 2021, https://a.co/d/1jgtSsf

 

Week 9

• Chapter 13:  Exercise Attunement and Containment in Your Relationships
• Chapter 14:  Practice Conflict and Repair in Your Relationships

Week 10

• Chapter 15:  Purse Strength and Vulnerability in Your Relationships
• Chapter 16:  Learning to Invest in Community

Week 11

• Chapter 17:  Community as a Place to Experience Structure and Mutual Support
• Chapter 18:  Community as a Place to Offer Empathy for Stories of Others

Week 12

• Chapter 19:  Community as a Place to Discover Purpose: Living for a Bigger Story
• Conclusion

Week 13

• Unwanted Reflection – share what you learned about yourself and your story in Unwanted.
  Write 1 or 2 paragraphs or a list of bullet points.
  How did I get here? Why do I stay? How do I get out of here?

 

Introduction to Going Deeper – hand out syllabus

 

Inner Child Model™

 

The Inner Child Model for Treating Sexual/Pornography Addiction

“The Road to Sex/Porn Addiction Recovery Goes Through Your Childhood”

Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., LPC, C-CSAS